Friday Foreplay

I know its not friday but meh who cares do you? No, thought not as long as we're talking sex who cares what day it is! There should be no excuse for lack of foreplay full stop.

Todays foreplay topic is finger play.

Lets face it if you dont know yourself what you do and dont like then how is anyone else ever going to know! You need to be able to guide your partner to your soft spots and your sensitive areas, so how better than to play with yourself first?

Was going to include a picture of a vagina here but if you dont know what your own vajj looks like then get off my blog, get a mirror then come back and carry on!

We're not talking about the rough fumble that you have at the back of the cinema on an awkward date with a guy who doesnt even know what a vajj looks like, we're talking about stuff that's going to make you quiver and get you going. You might not get it straight away and everyone likes different things! Some like it soft and gentle whilst others like it hard and fast.... whatever your prefer you need to make sure your partner is comfortable with it.... if not, tell him to buck up his ideas! This moment is about you and if he cant handle it then he can get out or at least not expect anything back!

Its not just downstairs that we women like attention, we have a whole body of sensitive areas.  Try teasing the inside of our legs without actually touching our sacred area, or down our hips or breasts, some women love their neck caressed or face lightly touched! Some women would die for a foot massage... each woman is different and a man who is all about pleasing his girl will take time to work you up before 'doing the deed'.