What i want to know is how many of us girls are up for delving into the seedy, dirty, sexy, exciting world of porn with our other halves?
Surely it beats actually having to have another person added to your equation? So for those of us who don't want a threesome or for those who might get off on watching someone else having fun or maybe imagine that its us they are doing it to porn IS for you!
Porn is normally just a lone thing and it can be quite personal, do you think your partner is going to be into what you're into? There is soooo much variety! Theres girl on girl, guy on girl, guy guy, guy guy girl, girl girl guy... standard!
But what about old man on girl, old lady on guy, old lady on girl? Bondage, interracial, dress up, outdoors, plumber (if they ever turn up), amature, babes, pissing, pooing, animal, public, hairy, big tits, no tits, fake tits, bukkake, hardcore, spanking, big clit, twins, drunk, passed out, housewife, abducted, dressing rooms, beach, photoshoot, swingers. There are so many more I'm not sure i have time or the energy to write them all!
So what exactly is porn doing for us? For most its an easy relief, no strings no expectations no cuddles no kisses! Easy peasy. But for others its great for being able to express what they like without anyone else having to know!
Because there is so much choice, you can have a nose at things and realize you have different tastes! But i will warn you be careful, it can jump from sexy to sick in less than 2clicks of your mouse!
Some people are very against porn as they see it as cheating, personally i don't. It's a film or photo on your tv or computer, they don't personally know them, nor are they likely to ever meet them either so for god sake let him/her watch or look at it! The only time it is quite obviously cheating is if they do know the person they are perving or wanking over! Sorry for the bluntness but you'll get over it or you know me and you wouldn't be reading my blog if you weren't prepared for it!
However women and pornography don’t always go together very well. Why is this? There are a few reasons: One of the foremost is that most male porn may not be a turn-on for many women because it’s so fake and not the kind of sex that a woman would perhaps aspire to (think jack-hammering men, huge slamming, jamming dildos, and loud fake-breasted women exaggerating the virtues and talents of their partner beyond what is obviously apparent).
This doesn't turn some of us on, and it can disappoint some that it turns you on. Is that the kind of sex you expect her to give you? Do you wish she looked like that? Some likely feels a subconscious pressure to "perform" like a porn star, to look like a porn star, and to be as sexually talented and adventurous as one, too. Never ever compare your better half to any of these women in the movies, maybe introduce her to something more sensual than hardcore the first time you watch something!
Porn is a massive industry with over 26 million porn websites! Thats incredible! Think of all the hard work put into this.... yes im being sarky, no one cares about these kind of facts as long as they can get off on it, just show us titties! Sometimes though when you are quite innocently searching for something non-porn related, there will undoubtedly be porn.... for example i typed in feet in Google images and this came up
So it might not be naked people rubbing feet in places I'm not sure feet should be rubbed but... it isn't innocent either!
Anyway, back to what i wanted to talk about, watching porn together!
I don't see the harm if you are both up for it! Especially if your lady is very sexually charged maybe put on a dvd for her and send her to bed a little early then go up 15 mins later and walk into her playing over the images on screen! You get turned on from 'catching' her and she is turned on from imaging what would be done to her.
I found a web site that shows a graph of what porn actresses would be more open to doing.... sluts! No of course I'm joking! I would rather my boyfriend watch some other woman take it up the arse than pester me to do it all the time! Mind you from watching it too much he might want to act it out, but that can soon be put straight if you offer to shove something up his arse too!
Some people become so obsessed by porn though because they can look at their fantasies! Some people look whilst at work.... really? How do you find time? Or am i being naive? If so I suggest you hide it well, I'd hate to have to explain that one.... I'm not sure these are on sale yet but they should be.
Bit obvious?
Anywho, if you don't watch porn, go do it. If you've never watched it with your other half, try it. It is never going to kill you just remember that!
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