Ménage à trois hey??? Now i think its fair to say most guys would be up for this and why the hell wouldn't they! They imagine it to be them walking into a room of two beautiful girls having a pillow fight or touching each other and they get invited in! Bonus huh!!
No you fucking idiots! Half the time you can't even make us come once let alone have two of us come over you or because of you!
You have to think this through before getting into it. A lot of the time most people will get into it when drunk when all inhibitions go and no one cares what they look like and are just out for a good time! And if thats the case i hope you had fun!
But some people are in relationships when they want to broach this subject, which is daring and also dangerous. Only do it if you honestly think you both trust each other enough and choose someone mutual! But don't ask for a family member or her best mate unless she suggests it! Now lets be honest most guys will want two girls
But you have to fair fellas some of us might might to pop another man in!
If you're expecting your lady to go with another girl you cant be shocked if she wants to be pleased by you and another man!! ONLY FAIR!!!
Yes some girls are into girl on girl so it wont phase them sharing you with another girl because it means they get to play too! But something you have to think about is pleasing both of them at THE SAME TIME!! Yes you all have to work together but you can not and must not pay more attention to one over the other, especially if you're ignoring your partner over the newbie!
There are so many ways to go about setting up a threesome but no actual information on what to do when you're there! And ok ok i get it you all fuck each other, great, but seriously set up some rules before hand so no one gets pissed off!
On a popular mens web page they have set out four rules for you guys so take a look!!
threesome rule no. 1
Establish the rules
You're going to have sex with two women and all three of you have your own rules and limits, so understanding and respecting one another's comfort levels should be a top priority when you're establishing your threesome rules.Because your relationship with your woman will likely be affected by this new experience, you need to be absolutely clear on which acts she's comfortable with -- and what to avoid doing -- in advance. She may tell you that she's uncomfortable with the idea of you penetrating another woman or even pleasing another woman orally.
You must respect her limits. Remember that each woman may suddenly feel jealous, so try your best not to shut either woman out and always give more attention to the woman with whom you have a relationship -- this is an extremely important threesome rule. (highlighted for a reason fellas)
As well, you may end up feeling jealous if you're not the centre of attention. Just keep in mind that the object of the game is to share sex between three people.
Also, remember that although some people try to drink their way to bravery for a threesome, drunken sex usually ends up being bad sex. If you want to have a cocktail or two to loosen up, that's fine, but no more. You want to be at peak performance.
threesome rule no. 2
Be as giving as you can
Although you may be hoping that the two women will give you 100% of their attention, the truth is that they're there to please each other just as much as they're there to please you. You may end up feeling ignored and should do your best to get over it.
The best way to approach this situation, and an important threesome rule to follow, is to forget your feelings for a moment and try to be as generous with your hands and mouth as you can.
Pleasure in one-on-one sex goes back and forth, but in a threesome it's more of a cycle that moves from person to person. So be patient; focus on turning both women on and the attention will come back to you.
Whatever pleasure you get in a threesome is a treat, so instead of expecting anything in particular (like getting oral sex from both women at once), enjoy everything that comes your way.
Keeping your hands moving and knowing when to penetrate are important threesome rules...
threesome rule no. 3
Keep yourself busy
When you find that both women are busy pleasuring each other and you have nothing to do, keep yourself busy. Take matters into your own hands and find something to do.
Caress the breasts, thighs or vagina(s) of one or both women, kiss their backs or necks, or give oral sex to one if she's in a position that allows you to (believe us, this will redirect attention toward you in a hurry).
If you decide instead just to pleasure yourself for a little while, don't feel bad; the action will come back to you soon enough.
threesome rule no. 4
Be careful with penetration
Penetration is what novelist Tom Robbins calls "that old show-stopper." It automatically forms a serious bond between you and one woman, leaving the other out. For this reason, penetrate only when you're sure both women are comfortable with it.
Your natural inclination will be to pay close attention to the woman you're having sex with, but you mustn't focus on her entirely. This is about the three of you, so keep that ideal close at hand. kiss and touch the other woman, look her in the eye, and talk to her if the mood is appropriate.
Be aware that you may feel overwhelmed with pleasure if you're thrusting into one woman and kissing and caressing another, meaning that you might climax more quickly than expected. Take it slowly and pace yourself.
And don't get so excited that you lose track of the women: All three of you should be sexually satisfied and, even if you achieve climax first, you must do everything you can to bring your two partners to orgasm.
Well that was insightful, and to be fair to the guy who wrote it... very good! He takes into consideration each woman which is exactly how it should be!
Afterward yeah you can lie around with both women, However, remember this is NOT a relationship. This means your newbie should NOT stay the night. Go home newbie and leave the couple to relax together, its not about you anymore thanks for your time... TAXI.
Time to be reassuring to your girlfriend or wife. You've had fun, but it's only pleasure and experimentation. Tell her that she turns you on, that seeing her being pleasured by another woman aroused you, and that while you enjoyed yourself, there's no one for you but her. She's your primary concern, so if you let her know it, you may well have more threesome adventures in the future. Capishhhh?
Now guys, c'mon its only fair you return the favour, she might have done it for you and if she is willing you should do it back for her! Let her be pleased by two men!! Don't get me wrong she might not want to so don't offer unless she asks! And if she does want one i can almost bet in every single case that she wont want to see you doing anything with the other guy!!! If you are into that well then fine, but most of us ladies like the thought of two very manly men touching and pleasing us, we don't want to fight for cock attention!
Now it's not just threesomes people partake in its orgies and swinger parties! I've never personally been invited to one so don't have any inside info on this (will look into it for a later blog thought I'm sure), but from what i can imagine its going to be similar to anything more than just you and your other half.... its going to be demanding and full of pros and cons! TRUST is a mega issue in all of this and if you are completely and utterly committed to each other then go have fun and experiment, if you're going into it with doubt don't go in at all and if your partner is still adiment then you need to rethink your relationship!
People go into these things sometimes believing that it will make their sex lives better when in actual fact it can destroy peoples lives and leave people very jealous, so please don't do it if you are not ok with the rules or terms and conditions beforehand its really not worth it!
People hype these things up and have high expectations in their head about it... when sometimes its just not all its made out to be.
And do you trust the other person enough not to do something on the sly?
Be careful, but have fun. You only live once so why not try?
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