Have you ever thought about sleeping or experimenting with each other? Would that be something you would be comfortable with? Is it something that has ever crossed your mind? The reason im writing about this is because in a recent game of truth or dare a question was put to one of my friends 'If you could sleep with one of your friends who would it be?'.
The answer was me. My friend was female and to save embarrassment i have changed the question slightly just so its not obvious as to who said what and to be fair my friend only had an option of women so... but the answer was me.
This got me thinking, do girls think about things like this? Have you ever wondered what it would be like to go with a girl? That is if you haven't already!
A lot of girls will experiment kissing girls when drunk for a laugh or some do it to get the attention of men... but why? What is it that makes us like that. I think for some unknown reason it seems to be more socially acceptable for girls to experiment with girls than it is for men to try with men. Why? I don't think that question will ever be understood or even answered properly with a substantial answer
Some men do get off to girl on girl action.. but what's in it for us?
Its tender, its exciting and its outside of the norm boundaries! A girl knows exactly what a girl wants, we know how we liked to be touched, kissed and caressed.
You see, while a straight woman can still appreciate another woman's body, we just don't 'appreciate' it in a sexual way from the waist down the way men do. We do not feel the same way about women as you do. For us, there is no attraction to do anything to any girl down there! It doesn't appeal to us. We think about it almost as much as NEVER! And if we do we'll try it.
Sometimes we will kiss, or touch each other's boob's though. And if you're dating one of us at the time, while some boyfriends will get a kick out of it, others will be confused. It does give guys the wrong impression.
Some women though do think more into it, and want to act out on it and will do this probably mainly when drunk. And i say why not! It's not hurting anyone as long as both parties are both consensual to it.
I think honestly most girls think about it, some of us do go through with it, some of us worry what might be thought of us, but we share everything else so no harm in experimenting with the ones you trust. I would much rather experiment with a close friend than with a stranger. Sorry guys no 'hot' female strangers come into play, we never normally leave our circle of friends.
Straight women don't completely understand the feeling a man gets about two or more women being together sexually, but we most definitely do know that for many men that it is one of their bigger fantasies. So we can, and will play on this, almost unashamedly at times.
I'm not saying it's admirable behavior. But when we do, it's usually just to get someone's attention. It is because we want to show off, or to create a stir, to have a laugh, and sometimes just for fun. We use it as a tool. That is the comedy for us, we are acting! And usually at the time we don't see any harm in it. We don't even realize that our partners could see these actions as 'cheating'.
So don't mind us if you hear about a girls night in, its all in the name of fun, and don't read too much into it... you're NOT going to get a threesome out of it so get that out of your head! We might try our friends but you wont!
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