Yes spanking is sexy and I think its fair to say theres a bit of kinky in all of us, some of course more than others, but im sure most of us like a bit of thrill in our sex lives that we're willing to be smacked a tad.
The feeling of "surrender" or submission is an important part of a woman's sexual response, as many women need to give up control and give themselves "permission" to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such feelings, the anticipation will add to her sexual arousal and increase her receptivity. You can accentuate this by making her play with herself at regular intervals while waiting for her spanking. Of course, you will want to ensure that she obeys your instructions, and that she knows her spanking will be harder if she disobeys.
Now im not saying you have to go all out and be marked up so bad that you cant sit for days, a light tapping is enough. You can use your hands or even an actual spanking stick or spanking tassles. These sticks or tassles can be found all over the web and in some stores such as Ann Summers.
http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/categorydisplay3_cp||et!letc~ev!10236||et!letc~ev!48955||_40151_48955_-1_10236_10001
Maybe if your going to try spanking you could try dressing up too! I know it sounds a bit cliche but try a school girl outfit and use a ruler or get your partner to blindfold you and use the tassle whip. Getting him to lightly caress you with the tassles then gently 'whipping' you on the inside of your legs or on your bum. Some men love to be in control so let him act this out on you and he will be putting in your hands!
Some men like to be spanked themselves, personally never done it so not sure how id react if i was asked to do it... but sometimes you have to go outside of what your used to, to please your otherhalf... again id just do as said above.
OOoooOooo think i may try this now myself pass the whip!
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