Nope to be honest me neither! Personally i dont mind saying i dont want a cock up my bum. Each to their own tho and this blog will be dedicated to those of you who love it or for those who want to try it!
Eeeeeekk ok this is making me wince and my poor bum is tensing up! Hahaha ok maybe too much info but some of us think its going to be far too painful for it to happen so bare with me....
Right a guide to safe bum fun is to use lots of lube and to use a condom, you seriously dont want to catch anything!! Ive also heard ( i watched a porn documentary on Channel 4 once and the woman said that if you push out like your going to have a poo and then the man puts his penis in and you relax its mean to be less painful...? Hmmm! A good lube to use can be found in most stores like SuperDrug or Boots. http://www.superdrug.com/sexual-enhancement/durex-play-aloe-vera-kind+gentle-intimate-lube-50ml/invt/601136/
Or http://www.boots.com/en/Mates-lube-condoms-12s_1133393/
Only the pros can handle no lube! So please use some i dont want to hear anymore horror stories of ring sting etc! Some women i know who haven't had lube to hand have used Vaseline. I personally dont think she recommends it but if needs must then it did her no harm!
Most men like the idea because its 'tighter', but i think i need to point out that with bums can come farts and poo.... i have a feeling guys see it as fun but do they take into consideration that these smelly body functions can occur whilst having 'fun'? Blurg gross id be mortified if i shit on someones penis.... some men are fairly considerate tho and wont kiss and tell if something hideous does happen but even so....
Anyway im being negative lets get onto the positives to anal sex...
Some women have been known to anal orgasm!!! Wow i hear you say tell me more... well ok then. Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It's different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before says one person. Especially if you rub her clitoris at the same time! ( The only time a man will multitask).
People also love to be a little bit naughty sometimes, and anal sex is one of those things you can do completely privately, and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your partner... which is part of the fun. It is also often a "first time for everything" type of activity which can also be nice... doing something you've never done before, ever.
So is it for you? When us women spend such a long time trying to look and smell good for you this can be and instant poo fest if not done properly and delicately.... so why do we put ourselves through it? A. because we want to enjoy it and B because we want you to enjoy it!
So if your feeling brave fine let him take the plunge but for me personally its a no go! Dont get me wrong im sure there are other things your partner could do to you to make this less offensive for you like maybe just teasing the area to make you feel more welcoming to it or even just using his fingers or tongue to warm you up! It doesnt have to be full on anal sex does it?
Make sure you are completely happy doing it before you do it! Get yourself in a position you are going to be comfortable with and slightly in control of so you can stop it at anytime, and have a good stiff drink beforehand just to let your inhibitions go..... god knows your going to need to!
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