What I'm asking is.... to shag on a period or not?
Some women are in so much pain the thought of sex is the last thing on their mind, but for some women they have 'controlled' periods so feel like they are able to carry on with their sex lives regardless of whether they are on or not.
Sex on a period isnt dangerous or harmful so i guess its down to both involved if they want to play or not.
Some men, like some women dont mind and will want to 'get their leg over' at any given moment so a spot of blood isnt going to put them off. Whereas some men find it creepy and lets face it ladies if men bled would you let them screw you whilst on their 'period'? I know for a fact i wouldnt! Is it just me?
Some women wont have sex at the beginning of their period as its not exactly nice, the pain and mood swings can also put us off and well scare off men, but towards the end of a period some women will put out because its no where near as bad! Some women will still be incredibly turned on whilst on their period, because their hormones are flaring and, the fact that having sex while bleeding is taboo may also add to their enticement for sex. But do be careful though because you can still get pregnant on your period ladies!!! And guys and girls also can get sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) during this time. In fact, having sex when a girl has her period can make it even easier to spread some STDs
If you are a woman who has sex on her period i seriously don't recommend you suggest foreplay, be fair! And if your a man dont expect that just because she is on her period that because she doesnt want full sex that you deserve a blowjob! Not all women give a crap about your needs when on her period.. if she does do it just be grateful and at least offer to give her a massage on the bottom of her back after or even before.
(But dont think if you do give us a massage before that its going to result in you getting anything! It will help relax us and will help us be nicer to you!)
For men trying to convince their woman of having sex on their period 'Sex Cures Cramps'. That's right, sexual contact, or orgasm rather (hers genius, not yours), actually alleviates cramps endured by "Aunt Flo." So now, not only will that "headache" crap fall on deaf ears, but women can't even use physical menstrual pain as a defense against the greatest act of all.
On an online web page for men i found out a mans point of view what they said can be found below ...
all kinds of fun
There are a lot of things that you can do besides engage in intercourse. And the following will serve to keep things exciting until her playground's no longer muddy.Below me
That's right, perhaps she'd be willing to fellate you until the early dawn... okay, at least until you have an orgasm. Some women don't mind paying their boyfriend's Mr. Big a visit or two when they're busy "seducing vampires" because they want to please their man. Who knows, she may even let your seamen take a wild adventure down her throat. The fact that she completes this act of lovemaking and accepts a part of her man into her body makes her a woman worth keeping (of course, not if you're paying her by the hour).
Sensual games
The two of you can play fun sexual games. For instance, while one does the kissing, the other person has to resist kissing back. You can even massage her back and chest with your hands, mouth and penis if you like. Rub yourself between her breasts, kiss them, lick them, have a jolly old time, chap!
Fantasize about next time
Delving into a conversation about sex can sometimes be just as good as sex itself. Jump into a fantasy about what sex would be like if you were having it right then and there, and mimic everything you imagine doing but keep your clothes on (and your erection constantly grinding against her).
Back door man
Although it's bloody unlikely (I mean that the way it sounds) that she'll agree to it, perhaps anal sex can resolve your uncontrollable need to get into a tight, wet area of her body. So long as she's wearing a tampon or you put a dark towel underneath her, this can be quite a delectable experience.
Shower sex
Yeah, I know I said that you don't necessarily have to have sex, but it's more likely than not that the two of you will get so turned on by the aforementioned suggestions that you'll simply have to get inside of her at any cost. And since no one wants to stain the sheets, why not hop into the shower together, clean one another and then get busy?
Diaphragm, man
Many women always tell me that they feel very confident when they have sex while wearing a diaphragm as it leaves absolutely no mess anywhere in the vicinity (except maybe in her vicinity). So let her slip one in and enjoy.
you can't touch this
Obviously, not every woman will be keen on the idea of having you fondle and kiss her all over, considering she may be feeling ill or icky, or simply not in the freakin' mood, so the main thing to remember is that you should remain understanding. And if she refuses to engage in any kind of sexual activities, then you'll have to put up or shut up. Or you can always begin calling all come with Righty on your own time (for entertainment purposes only, of course).Whatever the case, we don't get our menses, so we can't really begin to predict what women are going through (perhaps it's something like getting kicked in the nuts no, no, no, not even childbirth can hurt that much).
When I was just a lad, there was a running joke that claimed that women are untrustworthy because anything that bleeds for five days and lives must be evil. But I disagree; I love women even when they're ready to rip my head off simply because I am a man, and thus don't ovulate.
And there you have it; some easy ways to keep her satisfied and get a little satisfaction of your own at the same time.
So there we have it a woman's point of view and a mans!!!! Whatever you BOTH decide have fun :)
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